Priesthood and the Sacrament of the Sick
February 11, 2021, is World Day of Prayer for the Sick. This is this reason I am writing on “Priesthood and the Sacrament of the Sick.” February 11 is 3 days away as I write this. Last year, Sunday, February 16, 2020, we had a Sacrament of the Sick with Liturgy of the Word, in my parish, with Confessions before. We had about 50 parishioners, and 3 priests that day.
The World Day of the Sick is an awareness day, or observance, in the Catholic Church intended for "prayer and sharing, of offering one's suffering for the good of the Church, and of reminding everyone to see in his sick brother or sister the face of Christ” (“MESSAGE OF THE HOLY FATHER, POPE JOHN PAUL II, FOR THE FIRST ANNUAL WORLD DAY OF THE SICK” 21 October, 1992). The day was instituted on May 13, 1992 by Pope John Paul II, and is celebrated on February 11, also the memorial of Our Lady of Lourdes. (Wikipedia)
St. Pope John Paul II writes to the people of the importance of February 11 in his message on October 21, 1992.
World Day of Prayer for the Sick, beginning on February, 11 1993, will be celebrated every year on the commemoration of Our Lady of Lourdes, for all believers seeking "a special time of prayer and sharing, of offering one's suffering for the good of the Church and of reminding everyone to see in his sick brother or sister the face of Christ who, by suffering, dying and rising, achieved the salvation of mankind" (Letter Instituting the World Day of the Sick, 13 May, 1992, n. 3). (“MESSAGE OF THE HOLY FATHER, POPE JOHN PAUL II, FOR THE FIRST ANNUAL WORLD DAY OF THE SICK” 21 October, 1992)
As a priest, we have the gift to celebrate the sacrament of the sick. Sometimes it is hard to see the gift, especially when we get a call at 2:30 in the morning, when we would rather be asleep.
When I started my ministry as a priest, the bishop assigned me two days working in the hospital as a Pastoral Care provider. I was called for the sacrament of the sick, as well as being called to help families whose love one just died in the hospital. Prior to ordination to the priesthood, I took 4 units of Clinical Pastoral Education or CPE. It has helped me deal with people who are in great need, whether it is in hospital, or in their home. As priests, we need to listen to people in their grief. I learned that I do not have all the answers, but I can be there for that person(s) and pray with that person(s) when they are ready to receive it. It is a culture of Encounter.
Pope Francis has spoken of a ‘culture of encounter’ as a common goal, encouraging people to be fearless in the ways they look beyond themselves to the needs of others. “Faith is an encounter with Jesus, and we must do what Jesus does: encounter others,” he has said. (Share the Journey August, 2017)
We, as priests, should not be fearful encountering people. We should always trust in Jesus. Since 2020, with Covid-19, encountering people has been a challenge for us. When we go to the hospital we need to bring our mask, and now a face shield as well. Questions arise: Does the person have Covid-19 or will we attract it when we go the hospital? It is regrettable if let fear stops us from encountering others.
On January 14, 2021, I got a call in the morning, from the hospital here in Cornwall. They called me because the on-call priest could not be reached. I had just finished livestreaming my morning Mass, and I had a 10am Zoom meeting scheduled. As I had morning Mass I had not yet eaten. The hospital is about 15 minutes away from here. At the hospital and I visited the room of the patient, and celebrated the sacrament of the sick. I left the hospital, went to Tim Horton’s, and I was back at the parish 5 minutes before the meeting. I will always remember the person I prayed for in the hospital.
Sometimes we do not see the results of the sacrament of the sick, but in this case, I did. I got a letter on February 3, 2021 from the sister-in-law of the person I had anointed. She wanted to share with me what happened after the sacrament.
He had a resurgence of energy and relief from pain. He spent the afternoon in the company of his daughter, grand-daughter, step-daughter, two sisters and his brother. His brother said that he was able to have clear thoughts despite his dementia, and that his speech was better than it has been the last two or three years. They spent a wonderful time laughing and sharing old stories. That is how his brother will remember him. The family feels that they were blessed to have that experience. The next morning the doctor prescribed a strong medication for pain relief, and he slept until he died peacefully later the next day.
We make a difference with the gift of the sacrament of the sick. We do not always see it, but as long as God is in charge, miracles happen. I would like to tell you one more testimony of healing in the sacrament of the sick.
It was winter 1998, in February, during the Ice Storm ’98 here in Eastern Ontario and Western Quebec. I was not yet a year ordained to the priesthood. I met a man after Mass, who asked if I could go to the hospital and anoint his father-in-law. He also ask me if I could do the funeral for father-in-law. So after the Masses on Sunday I went to the hospital and entered his room. He was breathing, but I was not sure if he was asleep. I talked to the nurse and asked if he was asleep because I had to put holy oil on his forehead. The nurse told me that he was unconscious and he would not wake up. I celebrated the sacrament of the sick, and he did not wake up. On Thursday that week, I went to the local Knights of Columbus for their chicken wings. There I saw the son-in-law and he asked me, “What did you do to my father-in-law?” He told me that the next day he wanted to get out of bed. I was surprised to hear that. The father-in-law stayed in the hospital for a couple of months. One evening, the nurses noticed that he was wearing a suit and they asked him, “Why are you wearing a suit?” He told them he was taking them out for supper. They all had a good laugh, and 10 minutes later one of the nurses found him dead, but I believe that he was ready for it. I did celebrate the funeral for the man.
Sacrament of the sick is a gift, and we should treasure it. We all have experienced the miracle of sacrament of the sick. As priests, it is a special gift God has given to us. I pray that you never refuse to go to a patient who needs the sacrament of the sick, and that if the hospital calls us, we answer our phone, because someone needs us, and God has commissioned us to go.
Lord Jesus, thank you for allowing us as priests to confer the gift of the Sacrament of the sick. Let us not hide it under a bushel basket, and let us use it as often as we can. Amen.
Father Louis Groetelaars
President of The Canadian Federation of Presbyteral Councils
[email protected]
Priesthood and Blessed Virgin Mary
Mary is very important to us priests, as she is the mother of Jesus and the mother of the church. I have to be honest with you, I was not one to pray the rosary every day. I still pray the rosary when I am with my parishioners, just before morning Mass. I do not lead, but I pray with them.
Mary made a big impact in my life in 2017. It all started out when I decided to do a Do it yourself retreat using the book 33 Days to Morning Glory: A Do-It- Yourself Retreat in Preparation for Marian Consecration by Fr Michael E Gaitley. My 1st Marian Consecration was done on January 1, 2017.
That consecration changed my ministry for the better in 2017, and continues today. It did not hit me like a ton of bricks. The changes were gradual, but by the end of the year I had to say “WOW”.
The first change came on May 26, 2017, when I met one of my new favourite saints in St. Philip Neri, patron saint of laughter and joy. St. Philip Neri is one of the counter-Reformation saints, for St. Philip, as I see it, is going back to the basics in Catholicism. During St. Philip’s time, the 16th Century, the Church was corrupted by leadership of the church, and more secularization was peeking through the cracks. St. Philip was working with the people, at first, outside the church by working with young people in the streets, despite the corruption in the church. At times, the Church even silenced him because of fear, yet St. Philip was able to grow his community of “The Oratorians”. Later in life, St. Philip was the confessor of the last popes before he died.
The second change came on Tuesday, August 22, 2017. That day I did not have a Mass in the morning, and I travelled to Cornwall, Ontario. It is about a 20 minute drive for me to get to Cornwall. In Cornwall there is shopping Mall called “The Cornwall Square”, or, as we called it, “The Square.” I arrived at the Square about 8:45am and found a place to sit at the Food Court. Where I was sitting, people had to pass by me to go to the “Tim Horton’s” for their coffee. I sat there and had my papers ready for people to sign their names.
I wanted people to sign their names so I could remember them as I prayed the rosary. I thank Gus Lloyd (from Sirius XM Catholic Channel 129), who does the intentional rosary at times on his radio show in the morning, for this idea. People would sign their names and I would pray a Hail Mary for each of their intentions (usually when I have free time). I have to give Bishop Thomas Dowd, bishop of Sault Saint Marie Diocese, a thank you for this idea, as I heard that he would go to the Shopping Mall in Montreal, in his clerics, and talk to people there. He mentioned it in 2016, when the English sector of the Archdiocese of Montreal was having their Parish Vitality Conference. The other reason I started this was I said to myself when I retire from active ministry, I am going to the Mall to pray for the people. Then I asked myself, “ Why do I have to wait that long?”.
So there I was waiting for people to sign my papers for the Intentional Rosary. Because it was Tuesday, I was praying the Sorrowful Mysteries. The only advertisement that I had was my black clerical shirt and I was talking to many people that day. People were trying to figure me out, and wondering why this priest was in the mall. One lady asked me if I was asking for money. I said to her, “No I am giving prayers.” As I said, I started at 8:45 in the morning, and I talked to many people that day and tried to ask them to sign their names and intentions on my sheets of paper. I finished that day at 3:30 that afternoon. As It was my first time trying it, I had no measuring stick to see if that was good or not, but I finished one mystery of the rosary right there. And it was good.
This ministry stopped because of Covid-19. Pope Francis at WYD 2013, addressing the bishops, priests, seminarians, and religious men and women, on July 27, 2013 (which I attended) said:
We cannot keep ourselves shut up in parishes, in our communities, in our parish or diocesan institutions, when so many people are waiting for the Gospel! Go out as one is sent. It is not enough simply to open the door in welcome because they come, but we must go out through that door to seek, and meet, the people! (Pope Francis 2013)
I have been going every Tuesday to the Mall (except when I have another appointment like a funeral, or holidays), and the rewards are amazing. People are creatures of habit, and I see the same people every Tuesday, but I also see new people who are not there every Tuesday. The more often I was there, the more people knew I was coming, and were waiting for me. I would finished earlier and earlier, but by the time November came along, I was finished at 1pm.
It is wonderful to talk to many people there. Some of the people are church goers, and others are not. Some are Catholic, others are not. There is one lady who talks to me, who is anti-Catholic , even though she was baptized Catholic. She does not believe we should pray to the Virgin Mary, but she comes to meet me, in the Square, and wants me to pray for her. Maybe she knows I do the rosary,and maybe she does not, but she wants me to pray for her and other intentions in her life. She has challenged me at times. One time she gave me a pamphlet that said “Christians vs Catholicism.” It was an attack on the Catholic Church, and I was a little upset with that pamphlet. When I saw her again the next week, I told her that I was a Catholic and a Christian, and that as a Christian I love Jesus, and my brothers and sisters, and I want to be your friend. She responded, I want to be your friend, too. She has challenged me since, but not about me being a Christian.
There was corruption in the past, and in the present, and there will be in the future, but there are a lot of people looking for leaders to come to them. Prayer, it seems, is so basic, but it is strong also. During the Pennsylvania report in August 2018, of all the priests scandals, and Theodore McCarrick reports, some of the priests from my diocese were starting to hear that I was going to the Mall to pray for the people. One priest said to me that my number of people coming to me for prayers would drop. That is not what happened.
I started doing 50 intentions, or one mystery of the rosary. In January of 2018, I started 100 intentions or 2 mysteries. Then, the week after I was told my prayers would drop, I went up to 150 intentions. Before Covid-19, I was doing 250 intentions on Tuesday. It is wonderful to see many people I meet there. I talk to them, I joke with them, and more and more I pray with them.
Msgr Stephen Rossetti, in his book, Priestly Blessing, talks about how he will pray with a person, even in the airport, literally having his hands in the air praying for the person. I now pray more often with the person who has a loved one in the hospital or deeply stressed. One day, a man came to me and told me his wife was in the hospital, and I asked if I could pray for her, with him, right there, and he said “yes.” I met him on the other side of the food court from where I sit, and 40 minutes later he came to me, thanked me for the prayers and how it touched him so much. It made my day.
Someone asked me why I am not being challenged by the business people who worked there. I never have an advertising sign while I am there. As I said earlier, the only advertising is my roman collar.
I had a real challenge one day, not from the authorities, but I call it my first spiritual warfare there. That day, sitting about 20 feet away from me was a man, who was wearing a helmet with horns with a blue beard, and it was not Halloween. That day was a day of challenges, as there was a man who came to me, who I met before, and was a good friend of one of our retired priests. What he came by to talk about is women trophies in his life, and how he wanted to pray for all the children he has. I was getting more angry the more he was around me. That same day, as I was leaving the Mall, a man asked me if I was saved. I said, “Yes, because Jesus Christ is my Lord.” He was telling me that I was teaching lies. That was one of my worst days at the Mall. Since that day, when I go to the mall, the first thing I do is pray to St. Michael the Archangel, and I’ve never had a problem since.
As priests we have a responsibility to our parishioners, but there are a lot of people we do not see in our churches. Just staying in our churches, we do not meet all the people who need us. Let us not be afraid to meet outside the church. By trusting in Jesus, and being with the people, we will get rewards that we never expect.
The final event that changed my life in 2017, is that my diocese, Alexandria-Cornwall asked me if I would represent the diocese for The Canadian Federation of Presbyteral Councils, and that October I became the Vice President of the Central Region. Three years later, I became the President.
The Blessed Virgin Mary is very important to my priesthood, and I pray that all of us priests have a love of her. She is watching over us and protecting us.
Mother Mary, I pray that you help the priests, especially the priests who are struggling. We love you, and ask you to protect us. We thank you for saying say “yes” to Angel Gabriel, raising your son and our God, Jesus. As we say “yes” as priests, may me find happiness in our service to God and God’s people, in the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen.
Father Louis Groetelaars
President of The Canadian Federation of Presbyteral Councils
[email protected]
Je suis l’abbé Louis Groetelaars, le nouveau Président de la Fédération Canadienne des Conseils Presbytéraux (FCCP). Depuis mes trois ans comme membre de la FCCP. j’ai certainement constaté le bon travail que nous faisions. Nos trois livrets – qui vous sont disponible – font preuve de cela. Même avant que je devienne membre de la Fédération, j’ai compris l’importance de notre travail. Par exemple dans mon diocèse, nous les jeunes prêtres avions l’habitude de se rencontrer à chaque mois pour discuter et partager entre nous-mêmes. Au début, quand nous avons commencé cette pratique il y a 15 ans, nous avions utilisé « A Practical Guide to Priestly Wellness » et « The Priest as Servant Leader : Developing Values for Priestly Ministry », deux livrets publiés par la FCCP. Quels merveilleux partages!
En 2017, j’ai été nommé le représentant pour mon diocèse d’Alexendria-Cornwall. C’est à ce temps que j’ai assisté à ma première assemblée nationale, qui fut à Victoria. Les conférenciers furent excellents et j’ai bien aimé les discussions avec mes frères prêtres d’à travers le pays. De plus, ils m’ont élu Vice-Président de la Région Centrale.
Nous fûmes trois nouveaux membres du cadre exécutif: l’abbé Michael Kwiatkowski, le nouveau Président de la Fédération, l’abbé Gregory Smith-Windsor, le Vice-Président de la région de l’Ouest, et moi-même. Nous étions chanceux d’avoir l’abbé Ed Terry comme vétéran de l’exécutif, qui resta comme Vice-Président de la Région Atlantique. Nous nous sommes rencontrés pour la première fois en Ottawa avec l’abbé Douglas McNeill, le Président Émérite, pour le transfert de mandat à l’abbé Michael et pour planifier notre prochaine assemblée à Charlottetown.
En tant que Vice-Président j’ai participé aux trois dernières assemblées : à Charlottetown (2018), à Montréal (2019) et par diffusion électronique en 2020 (elle était supposée d’être à Edmonton). Les assemblées étaient tous fantastiques, chaque avec leur propres forces. Un des points saillants de mon expérience fut ma rencontre avec le Monseigneur Stephen Rossetti. Je recommande fortement tous ses livres sur la prêtrise.
Depuis que j’ai été nommé Président de la FCCP en Octobre 2020, j’ai lu plusieurs livres et écrits sur le sacerdoce. Entre autre, j’ai lu « Presbyterium Ordinis » (1965) et la lettre du Pape St. Jean-Paul II adressée au prêtres au Jeudi Saint 1979. De plus, je viens de lire « Letters to my Brothers : Words of Hope and Challenge to Priests » (2013) par Mgr. Rossetti. J’aimerais que tous les prêtres et les évêques lisent ce livre. Il est à a fois plein d’espoir et de défis, mais il renforce également notre sacerdoce. J’aurais voulu qu’il soit traduit en français, mais en ce moment il n’est disponible qu’en anglais. Chers évêques: j’aimerais que vous donniez ce livre à vos prêtres! Soit comme cadeau de Noël, soit à la prochaine Messe Chrismale.
Maintenant, une petite note personnelle. En tant que prêtre, j’ai trois saints préférés. D’abord, St. Pierre, le premier Pape. Je l’aime bien car avant la résurrection de Jésus, son humanité (et ses faiblesses!) étaient bien évidents. Il essaya de suivre le Christ, mais de temps en temps il échoua. Moi aussi, en tant que prêtre j’essaye de suivre Jésus, mais j’échoue. À la Pentecôte, quand l’Esprit Saint descendit sur les Apôtres, c’était St. Pierre qui prit la charge de parler à la foule. Je prie que l’Esprit Saint continue de m’aider à servir le Seigneur et Son Peuple et que je devienne fort comme fut St. Pierre après la Pentecôte.
Ensuite St. Jean-Marie Vianney, le curé d’Ars et le saint patron des prêtres. Il est la raison pour laquelle je suis prêtre. Il a eu des difficultés dans le séminaire avec ses études et beaucoup de gens doutaient s’il deviendra prêtre, mais il a réussi grâce à Dieu et à sa force d’âme. J’ai lu l’histoire de sa vie quand j’étais au séminaire et j’éprouvais des difficultés avec mes études. Moi aussi, les gens doutaient si j’étais capable de devenir prêtre, mais comme St. Jean Vianney je n’ai jamais abandonné. Après son ordination, St. Jean fut envoyé à Ars, un village aux périphéries de son diocèse. Les citoyens étaient certainement désintéressés de l’église et la vie spirituelle était presque absente. Mais St. Jean Vianney a réussi à ramener les gens à l’église puisqu’il avait une grande dévotion aux Sacrements, particulièrement à l’Eucharistie et à la Réconciliation. Des fois, il passait plus de 14 heures par jour dans le confessionnel! Les gens venaient de toute la France, et en effet, du monde entier, pour se confesser à lui. J’espère être aussi dévoué aux Sacrements que lui.
Finalement St. Philippe Néri, le deuxième apôtre de Rome et le saint patron du rire et de la joie. Quand j’ai vu qu’il était le saint patron du rire, je savais que nous allions devenir meilleurs amis, car j’aime rire moi aussi. St. Philippe et l’un des saints qui a commencé la Contre-Réforme dans l’église. Comme St. Jean Vianney, St. Philippe retourna à l’essentiel et considéra les sacrements comme étant très importants. Lui aussi a passé de nombreuses heures à entendre des confessions. En bref, mes trois saints préférés sont magnifiques pour les vocations et le sacerdoce. Merci, St. Pierre, St. Jean-Marie Vianney et St. Philippe Néri de m’avoir aidé dans mon sacerdoce!
J’aimerais aussi remercier notre Dieu: Dieu le Père pour m’avoir créer; Dieu le Fils Jésus Christ, qui est mort, a ressuscité pour moi et me donne constamment l’exemple idéal du prêtre; et Dieu le Saint Esprit qui veille sur moi et me donne le feu pour continuer comme prêtre.
Finalement, voici quelques buts que j’ai en tant que Président de la FCCP. D’abord, j’aimerais écrire quelques réflexions à partir de mes lectures sur le sacerdoce et mes expériences personnelles. J’aimerais aussi vous informer sur le site web de la sortie de nouveaux documents sur la prêtrise et de créer une liste de tels livres. Finalement j’aimerais développer notre site web (https://nfpcanada.ca) en célébrant notre prêtrise: en célébrant quand des prêtres deviennent des évêques; quand nous fêtons 25, 50, 60 et 75 ans de sacerdoce; les prêtres récemment ordonnés; quand les prêtres accomplissent leurs études supérieures, mais aussi en priant pour les prêtres et leurs membres de familles qui sont décédés.
J’espère que vous êtes aussi content que moi dans votre vie en tant que prêtres! Célébrons ensemble notre amour pour Dieu et aidons-nous les uns les autres à se rapprocher de Son Royaume Céleste avec tous les Saints et les Anges.
Que le Seigneur vous bénisse,
L’abbé Louis Groetelaars,
Président de la Fédération Canadienne des Conseils Présbytéraux
https://nfpccanada.ca/